A No-Nonsense Guide for Alternative Couples
So, you’re getting married and want a wedding that actually feels like you - not a carbon copy of the ultra traditional Pinterest boards that haunt your nightmares - they did for me! Haha.
Well fortunately for you there’s some GREAT NEWS: a Nontraditional Wedding Stylist can help you create something that doesn’t feel like a scene from a rom-com you’d never watch.
But how do you choose a wedding stylist when most standard stylists confuse ‘alternative’ with just another generic take on ‘quirky’ - missing the mark on your personality?
So how do I choose a wedding stylist?
Finding The Right Wedding Stylist (Without The Cringe)
Here’s the deal: your stylist needs to get your vibe, not just any alternative aesthetic. Whether you’re leaning into deep, rich colour palettes, metallics that scream drama, or something that bends tradition in the right places - your stylist should enhance it, not dilute it or add a splash of it.
Start by stalking the stylist online. Their website (they must have one of these to be a trustworthy business), their instagram is also a really great way to view their portfolio.
So what you need to be looking for is what sparks joy to you.
You want someone who has a style that resonates with yours. Perhaps the colour palette or their custom work. It could even be that they’ve inspired you by showcasing a design through a styled shoot or a real wedding.
If their previous work shows variety, confidence, and an understanding of different visual styles, that’s a good sign.
Next, talk to them. A great stylist isn’t just talented; they should get you.
Have a conversation, throw some ideas around, and see if they’re excited or just nodding along. If they’re pitching ideas that actually make you want to high-five them, that’s your person.
How Much Should You Care About Budget?
Let’s be real - that darn budget matters. But a good stylist won’t just throw numbers at you; they’ll tell you where your money actually goes. They should be honest about what’s worth the splurge and what’s just Instagram bait.
If they’re pushing expensive nonsense that doesn’t align with what you actually want, run.
A solid stylist is a luxury - they’re with you from day one, answering your emails at 3am, making sure you’re calm, and generally becoming your second-best friend throughout the entire planning process.
A wedding stylist is not just there for the one-day set-up and take-down; oh no.
The right one will lose sleep over the smallest detail, making sure everything looks so utterly perfect you won’t believe it.
And yes, the price will reflect their energy, their vibe, and their dedication to your day. Don’t auto-write them off just because they’re slightly pricier. The cheap alternative? They probably won’t give you that same level of service, and you’ll feel it.
What Does a Wedding Stylist Actually Do?
A solid wedding stylist doesn’t just make things look pretty. They source decor, design your overall aesthetic, and make sure everything ties together in a way that feels intentional.
So you’re not panic buying decor at 2am or it was so cheap on Facebook marketplace, you couldn’t pass on the deal (this is the worst habit I've ever seen, as it’s not your vision!)
Some will also coordinate logistics, so if you’re the kind of person who’d rather do anything but find the right colour napkins, the best candles and holders and then have to set it all up, hire the wedding stylist.
What is a Nontraditional or Alternative Wedding Stylist?
A nontraditional or alternative wedding stylist is someone who specialises in creating weddings that break away from the norm. They’re not here to give you a generic day; instead, they focus on curating unique, personal wedding designs that reflect your individual style.
Whether you're drawn to bold colour schemes, eclectic decor, or a relaxed, unconventional atmosphere, an alternative stylist is all about making sure your wedding feels authentic to you.
Unlike mainstream stylists, who might stick to traditional setups and trends, a nontraditional wedding stylist works with you to design a day that’s truly one-of-a-kind—using unexpected details, personalised touches, and a whole lot of creativity.
If you want a wedding that’s original, expressive, and far from the typical white dress affair, an alternative stylist is your best bet.
FAQs: The Stuff You’re Actually Wondering
How early should I book a stylist?
If they’re good, they book up fast—aim for 9-12 months ahead. If you’re last-minute, be prepared to hustle (or compromise).
Will they force me into a “theme”?
Not if they’re the right fit. A real stylist works with colour, atmosphere, and textures—not tacky, one-note themes.
Do I need one at all?
If you’ve got a strong design eye and the patience to execute it, maybe not. But if you want your wedding to feel effortlessly cool without spending months stressing over logistics, they’re worth their weight in gold.
Final Thought: Choose Someone Who Gets You
At the end of the day, the best stylist for you is the one who makes you think...
'Yes. This person understands what I want, and they’re going to make it happen without turning it into a gimmick.'
Trust your gut. If their portfolio, attitude, and ideas click, you’re onto a winner.
Want to see if we’re a good match for your wedding?
Book a Free Consultation Video Call!
We’ll chat, have a laugh, so you can figure out if we’re the right fit.
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